how to develop the mindset it takes to overcome adversity

how to develop the mindset it takes to overcome adversity

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Anyone can start something…What separates those who are winning in life from those who are just getting by is the commitment to FINISH.

Most people don’t finish because they can’t face adversity.

Overcoming adversity is not a matter of knowing the answers… It’s not giving up on yourself when you have the wrong answer. 

Because pushing yourself means that sometimes you’ll miss the mark.

If you want to be in flow state, you have to be at the upper limit of your abilities. You can’t find your boundaries if you don’t push them, and you’ll only know what they are when you fail.

That’s what it means to face adversity.

Having a vision is good, but the vision has to be big enough to pull you through adversity.

Otherwise, it’s not big enough.

Here is how you develop the mindset it takes to overcome adversity

1- Prepare for the journey to be harder than you think it will be

Many people fail because they think it will be easy. If you prepare for the work to be twice as hard as you think, you’re one step ahead of the game. Being optimistic will get you started, but knowing that you are prepared for shit to hit the fan will help you finish. 

2- Manage your fear

A lot of people run away from fear. Sit with it; get to know it; embrace it. When you embrace your fear, you become comfortable with being uncomfortable. Fear is good if it reminds you to be careful, but bad if it stops you from taking any action at all. Turn fear into fuel by knowing that the regret of not taking action will be bigger than the regret of failing. 

3- Change your focus

Whatever you focus on, you will attract into your life. You can focus on the problem or you can focus on the solution and see more opportunities. A lot of times, you see what’s wrong in life, and what’s wrong in life is always available, but so is what’s right. You can always focus on making connections to help solve the problem.

4- Find your flow

You can do more in 10 minutes in flow state than in hours being stressed out. If it feels like you don’t have enough time, take a break, and get into flow. If you’re stressed, it could be because you forget to feed the king: you don’t work out, you don’t meditate, etc. Give yourself time to get into flow state. When you’re in flow, your thought patterns are literally different than when you are not, and you will be able to see solutions that you couldn’t before.

Nothing lasts forever. You just have to be strong enough to withstand the storm. Most people quit because they aren’t strong enough to withstand the storm. It’s not how you start the race that determines the outcome… it’s how you show up when adversity hits you that will determine how and when you finish. 

The ability to overcome adversity is what separates those who dream about being successful from those who pay the price to be successful.

If you want to learn how to unlock your own unique King’s code and find the certainty within yourself to not be distracted by life, click here to buy my new book, The King’s Code.

 

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Are you being distracted from your purpose?

Are you being distracted from your purpose?

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This morning I did my daily ritual on my back porch, and as I was trying to meditate, there were garbage trucks making a lot of noise.

At first, I was triggered. It took me out of my flow, and I was considering going inside.

But then I realized that life will always distract you and try to take you out of flow.

How many times are you letting distractions from the OUTSIDE affect your INSIDE world.

There will always be distractions.

There will always be people who want to take you off the path you want to go on.

MASTERY is all about quieting the noise around you.

Mastery is about focusing on what you’re doing rather than letting the chaos around you distract you.

Ask yourself, what’s the noise you need to block out? What distractions are trying to knock you off your path?

Focus on the work, focus on getting results, focus on what you know you can control, rather than be distracted by things you can’t control.

At the end of the day, mastery is clarity.

Mastery is learning to cut through the noise.

Mastery is focusing on taking the right actions.

Instead of getting triggered, ask yourself what are the distractions you need to let go of.

The key to mastery is knowing who you are on the inside, so you don’t get distracted by the outside world.

That’s what Kings do. That’s what leaders do. That’s what you have to do to get to the next level.

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So you’ve decided to LEAD… now what?

So you’ve decided to LEAD… now what?

Being a leader is no accident.

It starts with a decision, which turns into ACTION.

It starts with the INTENTION to become a leader.

What is that intention? WHY do you want to be a leader?

What calls you to lead?

It’s not enough to be chosen, you have to choose every day to be a leader.

I believe that there are 3 types of leaders.

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If you are looking to become the BEST leader you can be, so you can make an IMPACT, because you were CALLED to lead, then you need to come to the Next Level Leadership Summit.

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The 4 Biggest Lies That Hold You Back

The 4 Biggest Lies That Hold You Back

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You want to go to the next level.

That’s a great first step.

You see where you need improvement. You start to change your behavior. You start to take risks in your business.

But then…

The risks don’t pay off.

And your behavior starts to slide back to how it was before.

And you haven’t levelled up, no matter how hard you’ve tried.

But here’s the thing: You’re sabotaging yourself without knowing it.

You haven’t done what you think you’ve done.

Every time we want to go to the next level, a little voice in our head stops us.

It’s an unconscious pattern.

And the first step to stopping those patterns is to recognize them.

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Here are the LIES that the imposter inside of us telling us:
1: “I know what to do but I don’t do it.”

2: “I’ve tried everything, but it just wasn’t meant to be.”

3: I’m supposed to be further ahead in life by now.”

4: “I will be happy one day.”

If you are looking to learn the system and the process that it takes to become stronger than that nagging voice in your head, you need to attend the Next Level Leadership Summit. This is where leaders come together to share the knowledge that helps them maintain their health, family bonds, and spiritual connection, while running 6-,7, and even 8-figure businesses.

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(Keynote) Make your goals SMARTER with Doctor Eric Cole

(Keynote) Make your goals SMARTER with Doctor Eric Cole

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These are some of the many important phrases you will start using after you watch this keynote from cybersecurity expert Dr. Eric Cole. Dr. Cole, founder of Secure Anchor, has decades of experience in cybersecurity, and his clients include Barack Obama and Bill Gates.

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But this keynote address is not about just cybersecurity, it’s about the habits that made him one of the best in the world at what he does. If you learn from and emulate his habits, it can make you one of the best in the world at what you do as well.

Show Notes:

00:00 Introduction: Who is Dr. Eric Cole, and how do you protect yourself from cyberattacks?
1:00 Why could no one run a 4 minute mile?
2:53 Your limited beliefs are in your subconscious mind
3:30 The Next Level App
3:53 In order to see your limited beliefs, have a 3rd party perspective
5:14 Other people can help you see better than you can
7:00 Is the app a tool or a weapon?
7:12 The meditation ritual grounds you when you write your journal
7:51 In 1996, the British Crew (rowing) team put the worst in the 8-person boat
8:55 In 1998, they decided to focus only on winning gold
10:15 “Does it make the boat go faster?”
11:05 Limited beliefs will limit your success
11:27 My one goal this year, and it is SMARTER
11:50 Most people are so focused on the goal they neglect everything else
12:28 All of your goals must compliment each other
14:27 Your mind is a magic genie
15:30 “Baking the pie”
17:55 Your purpose is what you do with the most ease or better than anyone else
18:10 What if Marie Callender talked herself out of it?
18:25 What is the pie that you need to bake?
18:40 Purpose vs. Passion
19:16 Why cybersecurity is my purpose
20:24 Nobody warned us how dangerous cell phones can be
21:26 Why your small company will be attacked in the next 12 months
23:06 Takeaway 1: Turn on 2FA
23:55 Takeaway 2: Use an up-to-date OS on a separate device than your home computer
24:42 Takeaway 3: Stay away from the “F” word
28:04 Takeaway 4: Turn on all of your safety features
29:30 Takeaway 5: Email and web browsers are your biggest vulnerabilities. Use 2 devices

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Is your relationship forcing you to change your habits?

Is your relationship forcing you to change your habits?

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On this episode, Raul and Vivian answer the question, what do you do if you want to change and improve, and your partner doesn’t?


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his is an issue that Raul and Vivian had to deal with in their relationship when Raul started his personal development journey. At first, Vivian was content to just watch him, but eventually, he set an example for her to follow, and she began to take a deeper interest in personal development in her own way. Does this advice scale, or did it only work for Raul and Vivian? The only way to know for sure is to watch this show.

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