What Does Certainty Mean in a Marriage?
On this episode of God, Money & Purpose, Raul and Vivian Villacis reflect on what certainty means. As Raul always says, certainty is not knowing the answers, it’s knowing you’ll do whatever it takes to get them. Many businessmen have certainty in their business, but no clue to have certainty at home. Their wives end up resenting them for spending all that time in the office and not spending time with them and being emotionally present when they are together
So they become pleasers, which ultimately makes their wives reset them even more for not giving them the male polarity and the certainty they need to feel safe and taken care of. The conversation continues with an examination of what certainty means in the context of faith in God, and how to love yourself and each other in the way that God and Jesus intends you to.
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