Can helping others hurt you?

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On this episode, Vivian recounts a conflict she had with their son, Alejandro. Alejandro has a habit of leaving work until the last minute. Raul is the same way. But when Alejandro asked Vivian for help with his assignment, his habits triggered her.

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Should Alejandro have taken his mother’s reaction in mind before he asked for help? Or should Vivian have not offered her help in the first place? Vivian and Raul discuss the different courses of action they could have taken in that situation, and also what Vivian actually did to deal with the stress and protect her own energy.

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