How to diffuse bombs in a relationship

On this episode of God, Money & Purpose, Raul and Vivian address an issue that comes up in every long term relationship: How to diffuse bombs. The escalation from discussion to disagreement to disaster can go very fast. But it’s far from inevitable.

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When tensions are high, Raul and Vivian suggest doing these things: Give your partner certainty that you are in control of yourself. Be assertive, look to God’s vision, listen to your partner for feedback.

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