Exploring Desire: How to Keep the Spark Alive

In this episode of “God, Money, and Sex,” hosts Vivian and Raul Villacis discuss a topic that never gets old: Sex. They dive deep into the dynamics of what stimulates passion and intimacy in relationships, focusing on the elements that turn women on. While every person has different turn-ons, Vivian and Raul share their personal likes and dislikes. They share insights from their 25-year marriage, emphasizing the significance of open communication, understanding individual desires, and the importance of creating a safe space for these discussions. The couple discusses the necessity of maintaining curiosity, scheduling intimate moments like sex dates, and the role of certainty and purpose in enhancing the relationship’s sexual and emotional connection.

Vivian and Raul highlight how a deep, energetic connection between partners can elevate sexual experiences to something more profound and fulfilling, which they call “sacred sex.”. They stress the value of exploring one’s sexuality to discover personal turn-ons and the transformative power of being seen and desired by one’s partner. Through their candid conversation, they offer practical advice for couples looking to sustain the spark in their relationship. Watch this episode to learn how to keep the spark alive in your relationship, no matter your age or the length of your relationship.

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