In this episode, Raul and Vivian Villacis explore the complex world of relationships and the role of communication. They begin first with a celebration of Women’s Day, honoring the profound contributions of women throughout history, and emphasizing the need for men to support their women and how every successful man has a great woman supporting them. They pivot to discussing common narratives about relationships, particularly the claim that successful relationships hinge on communication, offering their nuanced perspectives on this topic, using a recent viral video for reference.

Raul and Vivian challenge the oversimplified notion that communication alone can solve relationship issues, and instead discuss the different kinds of communication that go beyond just words. Specifically, the role of just listening and holding the space. They explore the dynamics of feminine/masculine energy in communication, the importance of understanding each other’s communication styles, and the impact of communication on the health of a relationship. Communication is just one facet of a healthy relationship, which also requires understanding your partner’s love language, setting boundaries, time/energy management, consistency, and balancing different responsibilities.