What you can do to support your spouse when he wants to GROW

What you can do to support your spouse when he wants to GROW

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If you’re reading this, there’s a very good chance that you are in the personal development world.

Do you want to grow, but don’t know what to say to your wife? Do you want her to encourage you without nagging you?

This episode of God, Money & Purpose podcast focuses on growth.

It’s uncommon that both partners will grow at the same time. In order to grow, one partner must focus on himself or herself and then encourage the other to grow, but you can’t force it.

You have to set the table, but you can’t make them eat. 

You have to feed yourself to have the energy to serve others.

It isn’t easy being married to an entrepreneur.

But if you watch this video, you’ll learn how to make it just a little easier.

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What Married Couples Can Learn From Will Smith’s Oscars Slap

What Married Couples Can Learn From Will Smith’s Oscars Slap

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Why did Will Smith slap Chris Rock?

Was it because of the darkness inside of him, or maybe because Jada gave him the “off with his head” look?

Even someone like Will Smith can go backward, from a King to a Warrior. (Or maybe a sedated warrior?).

Was this infamous moment an act of protection or was it a reflection of the uncertainty he feels in the relationship after feeling humiliated that she cheated on him?

On this episode of God, Money & Purpose, Raul and Vivian Villacis offer their take on why Smith acted the way he did from a place of understanding rather than judgment.

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What makes a good relationship?

What makes a good relationship?

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After several months off, Vivian and I have begun the new season of God Money & Purpose. On this show, we give our unique perspective on how to become a power couple.

It’s not enough to be successful in business, if you aren’t performing at a high level in every area of your life, you will not feel fulfilled.

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In order to be a power couple, you and your wife must have a continuous cycle of growing separately and growing together.

On the God, Money & Purpose podcast, you can learn from our experience how to do that.

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Is your relationship forcing you to change your habits?

Is your relationship forcing you to change your habits?

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On this episode, Raul and Vivian answer the question, what do you do if you want to change and improve, and your partner doesn’t?


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his is an issue that Raul and Vivian had to deal with in their relationship when Raul started his personal development journey. At first, Vivian was content to just watch him, but eventually, he set an example for her to follow, and she began to take a deeper interest in personal development in her own way. Does this advice scale, or did it only work for Raul and Vivian? The only way to know for sure is to watch this show.

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Can a MARRIAGE survive a MIDLIFE CRISIS?

Can a MARRIAGE survive a MIDLIFE CRISIS?

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You’ve got questions, we’ve got the answers. This is a special episode of God, Money & Purpose, recorded at a Next Level boot camp in front of an intimate audience.

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Personal development has a number of unexpected outcomes. The two partners see each other in pain, then later in stages of growth. What can that do to a relationship? How did Raul and Vivian deal with Raul’s tunnel, and his “ascendance” as a king? What did she do to grow herself, and how did that in turn affect their relationship again? Raul and Vivian answer these questions and give their insights into relationships on this special episode of God, Money & Purpose.

SHOW NOTES:

0:52 Question: If a woman is powerful and alpha, how do you, as a man, gain her respect?
1:11 Vivian’s take: You have to show up
3:04 Raul’s take: You don’t have to make more money to be more “masuline,” you have to have the masculine polarity. Don’t let anyone else judge you for what makes you happy.
5:15 Question: what did Raul do when he was going through a tunnel to get Vivian on board with personal development?
5:27 A woman has to grow to meet her partner
9:16 You can’t help someone else before you help yourself
11:38 Vivian talks about the experience of seeing a new person in the old person
12:44 Raul’s recommendations for increasing intimacy
14:40 Information is not enough
16:51 Question: How do I give my wife more confidence?
16:57 Short answer: You can’t.
20:30 Whatever your purpose is in life, don’t stop. Live your purpose and she’ll grow to meet you
23:14 Three things to do: Praise her, trust her, paint the vision
25:30 Date nights are important in a relationship
28:13 Raul’s closing thoughts
28:35 Outro

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What we can learn from Jada’s Smith Entanglement

What we can learn from Jada's Smith Entanglement

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The world of pop culture was abuzz this week, when Will and Jada Pinkett Smith admitted that they had some rocky times in their relationship in the past, including infidelity.

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This is a perfect opportunity for Raul and Vivian to weigh in on how a relationship can change over time. This is not to judge Jada for cheating, or to call Will weak for taking her back. In fact, we take the opposite approach. Every relationship has its own rules, and every relationship involves two dynamic people who are, hopefully, always learning and improving themselves. People tend to forget that a relationship takes work. We’re too quick to judge other people for having an unusual relationship, and we shouldn’t be. Hear what Raul and Vivian have to say about being in a public relationship on this episode of God, Money & Purpose.

Show NOtes 

0:07 Topic of the day: Will and Jada Pinkett Smith.
2:50 We’re so quick to judge other people’s relationships or character
3:58 Infidelity has no relationship with length of marriage, money, or any other external characteristic.
5:41 Jada’s explanation of the incident resonated with Vivian.
6:30 Don’t make this mistake in a relationship
7:10 Raul’s take on Will – The savior gets crucified
9:47 We’re so quick to tell others to leave their partners.
11:41 If Will Smith can’t do it, what hope is there for the rest of us?
12:00 Jada was looking for a “project,” and Will was no longer one.
12:28 Emotional insecurity is the reason for cheating in many relationships
13:43 How does a man help a woman going through this emotional roller coaster
15:00 To be in a relationship takes work
16:39 Clean the space between what people say and the truth
17:21 Raul is on Will’s side
18:58 We can all learn from someone else’s mistake
19:33 Are you taking care of yourself first?
21:32 You can’t expect someone else to fix you.
25:10 In your relationship, you will leave the relationship and come back in as a better person.
27:30 Wrap up

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